One More Thing - Pg 57 : Walking on Eggshells (or: When I Loved Tony Robbins)

   I told him I stopped because I realized I was turning love into an accomplishment, and he was turning accomplishment into love, and neither of those things would ever quite be the other. When I told him that, he seemed to both light up and flare out at the same time--like he knew this was the truth, but that it was also hard for him to let go of someone who would say something like that.